The days are so short. So far, it isn't as bad as I expected it to be. I had this notion that I wouldn't see the sun or something. Intellectually, I knew I would, of course, but nonetheless, there is more daylight than I anticipated. That's not to say there is much, but there's enough. If it would be more consistently sunny, that would be nice. We're having a Chinook, at the moment, which is a warm Pacific trend blowing over the mountains. It's lovely. I even wore a skirt (with leg-warmers) tonight, and haven't needed to zip up my coat for a couple of days. Now this is how winter is supposed to be (in my world). I got my car's winter tires just in time ! They make driving in the vaguely mucky, slippy, slushy snow a lot easier. Who knew, you really don't need 4WD to survive winter.

Having a car is really wonderful. I guess I can afford to have next to no disposable income in exchange for freedom - or at least the sense of some liberation. Tonight, just for the heck of it, after going with Andrew to Brave New Works and Wonton soup, I took a drive. Originally in mind to see the local Christmas lights, it seems Whitehorse is a lot like Peterborough in that people's lights go off by 10pm. Yeesh. People ! It's Friday night ! Anyway, I ended up on the Alaska Highway. Having not had the chance to really try out the car (who is named Viola, by the way) on the highway, this was as good an opportunity as any. It was lovely. The gas consumption was minimal and the handling steady, comfortable, and at 120kph, it was neither terribly noisy, nor did the car feel like she was straining. I turned around at a photo point about half an hour north of Whitehorse and then came home. If I hadn't, I'd probably have driven to Haines Junction !

Before meeting with Andrew, I went and hung out at Zola's Cafe and chatted with one of my favourite people here, Meshell, a very funky, execptionally warm-hearted fabric artist. I also wandered over to Studio 204 to take in the Plastic show. I wrote about the artist, Jen Williams, in What's Up Yukon a few weeks back, so I thought I'd better see it. To get an idea of how she uses the iconic Barbie doll to highlight contemporary issues, check out her site. It's nothing new under the sun, heck, back in Grade 5, or so, I distinctly remember a Mad Magazine that featured the mock ad for Bag Lady Barbie and Wino Ken, but William's work is fun and provocative (at least in Whitehorse), and she's a lovely gal to chat with. I like articulate, unprepossessing artists.

In other news, totally unrelated to artists or driving, I'm going to hire the boys upstairs to look after Choco and Twee when I go home. I figure I'll pay them $25 each and they'll take it more seriously. I remember when I was a kid and got paid by my neighbours a whopping $30 to look after their cats. $25 each will be great for these kids, I think. And they like cats and they live right here. I will leave them a list of things that need to be done, like the litter, feeding the beasts twice a day, playing with them, etc., plus I'll leave numbers for emergencies. I'm mostly concerned that my cats keep out of trouble while I'm gone. No doubt, every drawer and cupboard will be opened every day during my absence. At least they keep each other entertained. But ohhhh, the wrecking of my things... I should probably invest in toddler locks... Well, we'll see. It won't be so bad if the neighbours are coming in and out and amusing the cats.

And now, I shall go wash off my make-up and get ready for bed. It's been a nice day off, but I'm working this weekend, so I can't stay up late or be irresponsible. Hah. You know, when I got stopped by the RCMP tonight doing a drunk drive check, I had to laugh. "Nope," said I to the cute officer who was probably straight out of the academy, "I haven't had anything to drink - except a lot of wonton soup."

In 20 days, I will be on my way home. I'll be milling around in Edmonton, in fact, waiting for my red-eye flight to Pearson International. Wow, I am really looking forward to it. As much as I like my work, the stress that comes with it (most of it unnecessary and caused by people who should know better) can keep me up at night. I'm not exaggerating. There was a point early last week, where I really felt I could just pack it all in and leave because there was no point anyway. I was having anxiety dreams and really wanted to hide from the world. My friends Owen and Andrew both seemed concerned that I really would throw my hands in the air and flee back to the South, but that is because they don't know me well enough, yet. I fight for the stuff I believe in, dig my heels in and don't let go. How was that for mixing a metaphor? At any rate, I assured them I wasn't prepared to go just yet. There are a few things I need to accomplish first, then... well, at that point, who knows? It also hasn't helped that I haven't spoken to Gareth in over a week. Not even really on-line. It's the end of semester and he's working on projects, but nonetheless, it sure would have been nice to talk to him when I was feeling so low and vulnerable.

So, I entered the week with knots in my stomach and I went out with knots in it, but a different sort of knot - the excited sort. On Thursday I finally went for a test drive of the Kia Rio5. I first inquired about the Rio5 in September. I was looking to lease in October, near the end of the month, which was when I was told it would be arriving on the lot. There were delays. Mainly, I was told, due to a strike keeping the car on a dock in Vancouver for three weeks. I pretty much lost heart. But, after being denied a line of credit at the BMO, and offered a shitty loan at the same bank, I got a line of credit at President's Choice Financial, I was free to buy a used vehicle. So I planned to do this. I made calls and inquiries and each time the car would get sold to someone else. Feeling despondent, I was just about to flip open the classifieds one more time when I saw the light blinking on my office phone. What was it? A message from the Kia dealer saying the car had arrived.

See where this is going?

On Thursday, butterflies in my stomach, I left work and headed down to the lot where the car was waiting for me. It was adorable and blue and I liked it immediately. The roads were bad, what with it being cold and snowing, so my test drive never got the car on the highway nor even over 3rd gear (it's a standard), but I liked it. It rode nicely and heated up quickly. I also got to bond with the dealer as he scraped the ice off the inside of the windshield (a very common occurance up here) with a razor blade ("Oh great, I get to test-drive the Kia to the ... hospital", I told him when he almost cut off his finger). Very neat trick. I will invest in a blade for such purposes. When I returned to the dealership, I asked him to start an application. I wanted the car. And never mind leasing - I decided I wanted to have an asset and so I would opt for financing. It's a long finance period: 5-7 years, but it has no catches, no penalties if I buy it out early.

Friday morning, the message on my answering machine at work told me I had been approved. I was thrilled. My mother had offered to co-sign if I failed the check, but I didn't want that. I passed, though, and then it was off to the insurance company to get me some. I went through the TD Bank mmmmm-something and opted for the full package and am paying a reasonable rate of 730ish bucks a year. Not too shabby. The insurance company faxed the particulars to the Kia dealer, who went down to the vehicle registration centre and even got me my plate. My mother was stunned when I told her I drove the car off the lot Friday night. Sure, it didn't have winter tires yet, nor the mandatory block-heater, but I'm taking the car in tomorrow to have both done. Now the issue is, do I go for studs on the tires or full winter tires. To have winter tires installed, I'm probably looking at $500, including labour, which is really effing expensive, but then I'll have them for next year, too. I will discuss it tomorrow. I don't really have the money at the moment, what with rent having just gone through. But... I have that line of credit, so...

THIS IS MY BABY !

It is remarkably satisfying to have to make such adult decisions ! Seriously. Sure, I won't have any disposable income for a while now, but I have the freedom to just, you know, pop out to the store, or go downtown for a drink. And that's something. That's a LOT of something.

Anyway, now I must go be responsible and get some homework done. I've been seriously falling behind. I'm about two units back from where I need to be and that makes me a little unhappy with myself, especially since it hasn't been that busy a week. Relatively speaking, anyway.

Today is a much-needed day off. Really, another day off would be even better, however, one mustn't complain. I'm just happy I can spend a day in my nightshirt, tucked up with my cats while I do such things as catch up on correspondence, read, do homework, wash dishes, etc. I should clean my apartment, but it'll just have to wait. Vacuuming would seriously detract from the peace I'm enjoying today. I'm listening to Early Music and talking to as few people as possible. (Haha, my phone is ringing right now and I'm not answering it.)

I have had a nice weekend, despite working. On Saturday morning, I woke up when my doorbell sounded. Confused, I pulled on some pants and staggered to the door to see my friend Andrew peering in. Oh yes, we had a date to go look at stuff at a living room sale. Silly me, I must have turned off my alarm in my sleep. Fifteen minutes, I assured him, and sure enough, 20 minutes later, we were backing out and heading off. It amazes me that I can put on a face and clothing in that little time. The living room sale was good, even though I was mainly there for Andrew. He purchased a kitchen table and a rocking chair, and I a pair of CD racks. We were served coffee and given grab backs of stuff when we left. It was fun.

We went to the Bonanza Inn for a greasy spoon sort of breakfast. In the foyer, we met Anna, an old friend of mine from highschool back in Toronto. I'd met her in the spring when I first arrived in Whitehorse, but we'd never gotten together. Well, we did at the Bonanza. We enjoyed a very tasty breakfast with her and her son and nephew, and her sister was our waitress. A guy named Len joined us at some point later, who was obviously, like Anna, a regular there. Good times were had by all. We also heard a rumour that the Arts Centre exec would be leaving, which amused me.

After work, Andrew returned to the Arts Centre and we prepared to watch a classical concert featuring the most talented Susanne Yi-Jia Hou on violin. She is an extremely personable and charming young violinist of Canada, who has been busy touring the world with her accompanyist, Vincent, a graduate of Juliard's Masters programme. They were excellent together and clearly have a good rapport, at least as musicians, and I presume personally, too. I dozed on and off through the Schubert, which is not a reflection of the playing, but of my level of exhaustion. It reminded me of when I was a kid and dozing off at the Messiah - I woke for all my favourite parts and enjoyed it thoroughly. It's a really pleasant way to snooze. I was amused at the reception when the local opera diva, Sonja Anderssen (sp?), who had been roped into turning pages for the pianist at last minute, told Hou that she didn't "play the music". No. She "sings" it. I presume for an opera diva, that is the highest of compliments. Even a diva of, in my opinion, less ability than her attitude suggests. Heh, Hou took it graciously, of course.

Sunday, I ran a KidzKreate in the Production Room/Studio Theatre. It was themed "Stark Raven Mad" to incorporate the Raven Tales show in the Gallery, by local Yukon artist Alice Park-Spurr. It had a moderate turn-out, but that's okay, since the weather was snowy and the roads somewhat precarious. (Hello, Whitehorse, have you ever heard of snowplows?) One of the little boys attending hugged me goodbye at the end - it was so cute. I also started hanging a new exhibit in the KidzGallery (which I'm thinking of renaming). Once I was at home, as I was deprived of my Masterpiece Theatre fix, I spent the evening doing mounds of homework and reading Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, which I'm enjoying way too much. I broke my own rule ! Never, I say, read two books in the same series one after the other, for without proper spacing, you're left waiting for the next installment. Sadly, I'll be waiting for the next installment, but Order of the Phoenix was just so good, I had to pick up the next one.

Anyway, now I should go wash my dishes and start marinating my steak.

It's a strange feeling, realising that you really are no longer part of a group. It's not a feeling I much like, either, as it makes me think of all the times I'd been excluded by my peers when I was a kid. I'm not saying my friends back in Ontario don't still love me, because they do, but I'm not part of their lives. What had been a 'great' idea, to have me join in to stuff via webcam has been forgotten, even when I've reminded them, and while it's not really that important, I guess, it's symbolic of something larger. Here I am, trying to cling to the familiar, in part because it's so hard to build a real social network here, and I'm being forced to move on.

The show is up in the Gallery, the artists have come and gone. I was, once again, the liaison and spent a lot of time shuttling them hither and yon. The two artists up from Toronto, John Greyson (filmmaker) and David Wall (composer), were truly delightful. I had a wonderful time with them. They represented, to me, everything I love about Toronto. Physical contact, quick wit, an expansive intellectual intelligence, an openess about issues, style, and generosity of spirit. Yes, on the whole, there is a coldness to Toronto, a superficial charm that is only a veneer to the distant and apathetic nature of the city, but these men were not like that at all. I laughed and talked with them in a way I haven't with anyone else since arriving here (Gareth not included). Even my flat, Torontonian accent deepened ('innerac' vs. 'interac').

In other news that won't make me feel more of a funk, my cats are awesome. Twee is a bossy boots when it comes to demanding things like attention, food, love - complaining loudly and generally reminding myself and Choco of his existence. Choco is still a silly boy and gets himself into jackpots, like when he jumped into the tub again while it was full of water. And he knew it ! What a dork. And when he got himself stuck in my chest of drawers. Twee, yowls terribly when I shower because it is obviously trying to eat me, but sleeps next to the tub when I am taking a bath. Both boys sleep with me at night, sometimes under the covers, which is really warm, and vie for my lap when I sit on the couch. I'm very, very happy that I adopted them, both of them. They are my little treasures in this remote and sometimes lonely place.

There's a certain segment of the population in every Canadian centre. By centre, I mean every town over 1000 people, and by segment, I mean the high-earning, upper-middle class WASP. Who are these people? Well, they often believe in fiscal conservatism while supporting a social safety net, and they frequently go to events like "the opera" because they believe it's something they ought to do, although when asked, many of them aren't sure they "get" it. They work as lawyers, doctors, upper management in Government; sometimes they're well enough off that they don't really need to work at all. Additionally, they have pleasant if not 'good' taste, believe that Christmas comes with a cinnamon and evergreen scent, have lots of large books that they've never read but leave out in strategic places so that people think they're clever, have a dog, a cat, and two cars in their garage. Often, the wives work, but don't really need to; it's mostly to "keep busy" or "get out of the house" or even to put their "university education to use". Frequently these women are blonde, though not by nature. Probably, these people are all over the western world.

You know the type.

They're many of the people that go to fundraisers and galas and drop wads of cash for questionable products in support of hospitals and causes. In large centres, they also support the Arts. In smaller centres, where frequently the Arts struggle for notice, they don't. Well, Whitehorse has a shockingly high number of these people, because it is, primarily, a Government town, employing many people into the public sector, to, so far as I can tell, run a territory that wouldn't have much a population to speak of if it weren't, you know, for the government. Back in Toronto, when I worked at the ROM in the Membership Department, I was disgustingly good at parting these people from their money and making them feel special at events (mainly so that they would continue to be parted with their money).

Well, tonight I saw that segment of the population here in Whitehorse and I realised something. With the exception of possibly 20 or so of the 200 people (possibly more) in attendance, these people are not making it to the Gallery. To the Theatre, probably some of them, but into the Gallery for more than just an Intermission stroll? Not so much. They are not taking an active role in the Visual Arts at all. And tonight, watching them ogle fashions created by a local, rather pleasant - if not to my tastes - though not spectacular fashion designer who seems to specialise in gowns and party frocks, I realised we're missing out. We being the Arts Centre. We're missing out big time. When you can actually consider, without batting an eyelash, purchasing a charming, if not particularly interesting, wool toque for 70 to 110 dollars, or frou-frou organza numbers for a whole hell of a lot more, despite living in a climate that requires Sorel -40 boots for five months of the year, I need to meet you. I NEED TO TAKE YOUR MONEY.

I once swore I would not do fundraising again, and mostly, I mean it, but the Arts Centre does nothing to raise funds. It's the most pathetic Arts organisation, ever They have two boards, a board of directors and a foundation board. The foundation board is responsible for raising money specifically for the Gallery collection, so I've been told, and in five years, this board has not raised a finger, nor raised a penny. Coincidence? Hah, not likely. They make the excuse that as the population ages, they will ramp up their activities to gain those sweet, sweet bequests - you know, the gifts from or in the name of dead people. Right.

And what of all the living people? What of the incredibly well-paid two-income government households with money burning their pockets? Those people who wear clothes that look casual, but you just know they paid lots of money for them, and who drive SUVs but don't seem to understand the 'utility' part of the name? Who can comfortably take a family of four from the Yukon to the Carribean for their holidays? The very same people who were at tonights fashion show?

Right, well, the foundation doesn't seem to see the wide world of wealthy people, even though it is apparently made up of them. The reason, I think, is because Whitehorse is the home of Government hand-out and entitlement. Truly, the home is not Ottawa, like people seem to think, it's here. Where people get paid $150K a year to head commissions that do nothing but make plans that go no where.

Like I said, why the hell aren't they being milked for Arts support? They'll dish out 230 bucks for a necklace that is made of semi-precious stones on two strings with a bobble, but they won't put five dollars in the Gallery admission box. What is wrong with that picture? If, in my time here, I can run an event each year that brings money IN to the Gallery, I will be thrilled. A couple of events, a doubling (at least) of school attendance, and a handful of exciting shows that I have curated for the Community Gallery, then I will have a fat portfolio that I can take anywhere in the world.

But first... first I need to do some homework.

I'm cheaping out, but with Hallowe'en almost upon us (yes, it has an apostrophe, damn it), I figure I can't gripe about this enough. I don't know when I became such a snob, but I presume it's been a long time coming. As previously posted in my livejournal: my complaint about spellings.

I spell Hallowe'en with that little do-hicky called an apostrophe. That was how they taught me to spell it in school. Like co-operate with an hyphen. Two things that do not happen in regular English spelling anymore.

WHY NOT?

Hallowe'en - a contraction of (All) Hallow Even(ing).
Co-operate without the hyphen should be pronounced COOP (like chickens) and that is still how my brain reads it.

Who told people to stop doing it? Was it just collective laziness on the part of spellers? Is there a Language Institute (like the org that sets the colour trend standards three years in advance) that makes language changes and subtly folds them into our usage without our knowing?

Witchology.com (who comes up with names like that?), which was the first hit when I googled "hallowe'en spelling" says the UK spelling uses the apostrophe, so my question is... is the U next? Already I see my friends dropping it in favour (note the U, people) of the American spelling.

STOP THE MADNESS ! Please, my Canadian friends, do not give in to the lazy spellings dictated by a angry Dictionarian (Webster).

But I digress. I blame the insidiousness of shlock style-guides telling people how to write.

I was asked why I use the British S over the American Z in words like 'organise' and my answer was really quite simple: "The sound S makes when placed alone between two vowels is usually Z-like. I figure, if that's the case, I'll go with the version used by the people spelling in English longer."

Yes. I think way too much about these things.

The juggling act has begun. In the past, it was full-time school and a part-time job; now it's a full-time job and part-time school. The other main difference is that I'm studying from home, which is a challenge to both my motivation and time management. As a slacker with a fluid sense of time, this is really hard. I think I'll get the swing of things - I'll have to - but until then, the balancing act and self-bribery required to get things done is a trick. I've got faith in myself, I know I'll pull it off, but this semester might be a bit harder than the others because I don't, as of yet, know what to expect.

The box of supplies (reading materials, activities, etc.), which they call a 'package' was as large as the bankers' boxes I shipped my books in, though not quite as heavy. Each module has a fat binder filled with readings and exercises, essentially, the 'course' itself, plus books and, in this case, a DVD. There is a tutorial that I must do and at the end of it all, due at the start of January, there is a not-insubstantial essay for marks. I haven't written an academic essay in a few years and they have a very specific set of rules governing how sources are to be cited. Thankfully, I really enjoy footnotes. There were so many materials, though, that it was imperative that I build my last piece of furniture - the second of my 6' bookcases.

Additionally, I've picked up a semi-regular freelance gig with What's Up Yukon, which while not paying a ton, certainly will help put groceries in my refridgerator. The piece I've just been offered is a feature on the next three artists coming up in the Gallery. I will try my hardest to keep any bias out of it. Heh. I guess that says something for the editor's impression of the first short piece I submitted. Go me !

I just have to remember what my real purpose here in the Yukon is. I've got an excelent job and that is why I'm here. I'm one person and must not bite off more than I can chew, even if my mouth is big. I have created for myself a clear timeline for priorities based on work and school and I will work on my self-discipline to adhere to it. People have expectations of me, and I have expectations of me, and I really don't want to muck this up. I've got a long history of dashing my own personal expectations, while some how managing to salvage most of those set by others. Now, I have to stay serious and get what I need to get done so I can move on in life. I hope I can do it !

I've had a particularly gruelling week, though today is currently quite mellow. It has involved a conference, several varied tours, spending a lot of time driving people (for the conference) back and forth, shmoozing, eating, planning tours, playing phonetag, writing an article, and unfortunately arguing with my boss. Not so cool with that last one. But it's all added up to one heck of a week.

Twice now, I've tried to cook squash. Bake. Whatever. First it was an acorn squash, which took forever and totally wasn't worth the labour involved and the second was a spaghetti squash, which I tried to bake last night. When I cut it open, I was horrified to discover that part of its innards were rotten. Gross. And the part that was good, wasn't particularly tasty. Not with salt, not with butter. I give up. If it isn't pumpkin, I don't want to bother. And if it is pumpkin, I'll take it IN things, thanks.

I was supposed to work this weekend, but my boss decided that he would work and I would take the three days off (long weekend for Thanksgiving) and rest up because "I look like I need it." Jerk. Anyway, I contemplated going to Anchorage with my friend Hoshq, but that's a lot of driving (like 22 hours or something) for just three days off. It would be a stunning drive, I'm sure, but would it be worth it? Well, maybe it would, but I'm not going to find out, because I don't think I'm up for that kind of driving. I'd consider driving up to Carmacks or Faro... those could be daytrips, but not all the way to Anchorage.

Anyway, tonight, Owen and a I are having dinner at Hoshq's cabin. Potluck style. It should be fun and rustic and about as close to a Thanksgiving dinner as I'm going to come this year. I shall sorely miss my mother's awesome cranberry sauce and crabapples, and the turkey, but since no one is actually generous enough in this town to invite us outsiders into their homes for such holidays, dinner tonight will have to do. I'm planning on bringing pumpkin pie. :)

And, finally, in still more utterly unrelated news, I woke up this morning to the odour of Twee lying on the pillow next to mine, stinking of poo because he had a turd stuck in his fur. And then, seconds later, Choco arrived and after a few sniffs, tried to bury Twee's bum. Needless to say, I woke up, chucked Mr. Poopypants off the bed and then chased him with a kleenex until I rid him of said clingon. YUCK.

After a day that looked and felt like a cold blustery November day in Toronto, today is rather nice. Unfortunately, I would estimate that 50% of the golden leaves that had been holding on have since blown down. And, slowly but surely, the snow is now creeping down the mountain sides. It's on the taller mountains surrounding Whitehorse, and Mount Lorne is looking particularly spiffy. Golden Horn and MacIntyre are speckled white and Grey Mountain has had snow but it has melted off again. I'm more comfortable with the snow now than I was in August, that's for sure.

I'm working 70 hours this week for some extra dough. I'm the transportation captain for this weekend's conference, so we went and picked up our walkie-talkies this morning. That was fun. I won't get a lot of sleep, though, which is a shame because I really do enjoy sleeping. However, an additional 40% supplementing this coming paycheque is welcome and will get used either to put down a security deposit on a lease vehicle or purchase part of my airfare home to TO for Christmas. I've also picked up some freelance work for "What's Up Yukon", the arts rag that's published every two weeks. It wants to be "Now Magazine" when it grows up. It doesn't pay much, but it pays enough to buy me some groceries.

Speaking of money, the saga continues. I finally had my meeting at the Bank of Montreal today about the loan I applied for. In that time, I came to the realisation that it will be nearly impossible to find a decent vehicle, 5 years old or under, for $8000. I've been doing my research. It ain't gonna happen unless a miracle occurs. So, I've been out visiting the Import dealerships here (Subaru/Kia, Toyota, and Nissan) and test driving their new mini-models. Kia doesn't have the Rio5s in right now, but it was estimated I could get a lease rate of 260/month. I test drove the Yaris five-door hatchback, which was quite zippy and fun, and was given the rate of 244/month, which is better than the Kia. I finally test drove the Nissan Versa today, too, and it was absolutely the -most- fun to drive of the lot of them and felt quite "European". It is a small, sexy car, but the rate I would get would be 298/month, so it's also the priciest. Probably out of my range, even.

Getting back to the bank, today; I talked to the representative about getting a line of credit instead of the loan. Denied ! Flatly. Seriously, I was flat out denied and there was no room to negotiate. So, I asked about a better loan rate that would allow me to actually find a vehicle and was informed that based on my income, and utter lack of assets, I wouldn't get much more than what they're offering, which at 5.5% + prime (approximately 11.5%), isn't really all that great. So, this leaves me somewhat screwed, but I'm just going to hang onto the wonderful sensation of rocketing along in SIXTH gear in that little Versa. Mmmmmm.

First of all, I had three days of migraine headache. I ended up calling out on Thursday and sleeping through most of the day. I think part of the reason (other than it being that time of the month) has been due to stress. Stress at work - being busy with little time to recouperate, financial stress regarding loans/lines of credit for the vehicle, etc. It's a catch 22 you see. If I don't get a vehicle, I can save some money, but if I don't have one, I feel extremely isolated. If I get one, I will alleviate some of my 'trapped' feeling, but I'll put myself into debt, nevermind not being able to save money. The thing is, I've been really unhappy this week, and part of the reason is exactly that 'trapped' feeling of isolation. It is bad enough that there is no other city to go to, nothing within a few hours drive, or that to get most places it takes at least one plane, usually two.

I realised that I hate the feeling of being penned in, of enforced isolation. I hate making more money than ever before and finding myself just as caught by prices and expenses as when I was poor. I hate that when my mother says, "But how will you save money?" my answer is, "I won't." I hate that to make myself feel better, I buy things, which, of course, uses money. I hate that the people of this city, in many ways, do nothing to alleviate the sensation of entrapment, too. I told Rick that I 'hate it here', which may not be true, because I really don't think I do, but I hate a lot of things about it. Of course, I like things, too.

For instance, I like that I was able to go for a walk and sit on a rock overlooking the greenspace behind my apartment and think about things. I sat, in the sun, surrounded by golden trees, undisturbed for half an hour. That is when I came to the realisation that I really dislike it here. Not 'here' specifically, but because of all those things I mentioned, I really have strong negative feelings. But I also realised, while sitting on the rock, that I can change how I feel about this place. I have the power to control what I take from the experience. My second cousin taught English in Japan for two years and could only think about the differences between here and there and it made her dislike the experience intensely. I don't want to be like her. I want to come out of this Whitehorse experience feeling better for it, like it wasn't a waste, or hateful.

So I got to thinking about what I need to do in order to change how I feel. There's no question, I have to have a vehicle. Preferably while it's still nice so I can... you know, go places, but that's probably a pipe dream (I won't have the money until October, at which point it will no longer be nice). I need to accept that I will live with debt for a while. I think it will be impossible for me to save money here. I must concentrate my efforts to do the best job I can do here at the Arts Centre, get the experience I need, work my buns off for my Masters, and then, perhaps, if I'm one of the very lucky, I'll eventually make enough money (doing what I love? Is that even possible?) to climb out of debt. I guess life is full of these challenges and choices, so I need to make mine as carefully as possible to get the things I need and hopefully some of what I want, too. I mean, this time last year I had just arrived in Winnipeg and being in the position I am now in was not even imagined.

Oh, life. Better than the alternative.

A bond between cats is a powerful thing. My boys, Choco and Twee, are truly bonded, the way Willi was bonded to me. They share everything, from my bed to catnip toys; they are a delightful pair. Twee asserts himself with me more now, demanding my attention and Choco can stand to be in a room without Twee, now, but nonetheless, they are best friends.

I have been getting home really late (for a work night) most nights over the past week. It's installation time at the Gallery, you see. Sometimes I remember to turn on my porch light, but mainly I forget. I guess my head is still somewhere in July when it would still be light out. Anyway, tonight I got home around 11:30pm and it was pitch black in my apartment and outside. I unlocked my door after several missed attempts; on the other side, my cats were whipped up into a frenzy of meowing, waiting for me to come in and feed them. When I open my door, I tend to thrust in my foot, or my backpack to keep the beasts at bay - I'm not keen on them dashing out. The first time they escaped, it was a bit nerve-wracking to get little Choco back in. At night, I don't usually have to worry about them escaping, they're more interested in dinner.

Tonight, however, Choco, who was completely whipped up, took it upon himself to throw himself over my foot and out into the wilds. Crap, I thought, but instead of panicking, I went inside, leaving the door open and calling to Twee for his supper. I thought that might entice Choco back in. I realised after putting kibble in both of their plates, Choco had not returned, so I flipped on my outside light and went out to see about retrieving him, shutting Twee in. I called and immediately heard Choco's little voice in answer, excited and not too far away. I called again, he answered, and I followed him, but he was in the process of moving up into the front of the house.

Around the side, where my living room window is, the outdoor light came on (motion sensor) and I got a clear view of Choco who was hesitating now. I stood there, calling him, trying not to sound nervous or upset because he's very sensitive to that. The thing is, Choco doesn't really come when he's called. Despite sleeping with me, lying on my lap, and being fairly lovey with me now, he hasn't gotten to that level of domesticity with me.

Then I heard another little cat voice, at first thinking it belonged to one of the neighbour's cats, until I realised it was beside me. There was big Twee in the living room window, which was open, calling. He could see Choco climbing around the parked cars. Twee got very insistent, using the same tone he saves when calling Choco for a game, or just trying to figure out where in the apartment Choco might be. Immediately, Choco stopped and answered Twee. Twee called him again, face pressed right to the screen of the window. Choco took two steps toward me, Twee called once more and Choco bolted for the door.

When I let him in, Twee backed up to let Choco through. Choco was all excited, his tail was all frizzy, and he was miewing kitten-like with excitement at Twee. I assumed that Twee had eaten the dinner I had put down for them, and wanting to reward Choco for coming back in, I went to their food tin. What I discovered was that Twee, who, as Gareth says, has the heart and soul of a wumpus, had actually abandoned his dinner to come to the window and call out in concern. He knew something was wrong and that Choco was missing. I couldn't stop myself from picking Twee up and hugging him hard - something he usually isn't keen on. This time, as though he understood, he just let me, purring the whole time.

Now, Choco is lying pressed up against me in bed as I type, exhausted from his wilderness adventure and feeling, I think, a bit vulnerable. Suits me just fine; better him here then out there.

In other animal related news, tonight I saw the biggest fox I have ever seen. Foxes are not usually large animals. This was an enormous fox. I couldn't believe it for what it was, at first. I found it because en route to the private studio/gallery I about to visit, I met a Subaru pulled up on the highway shoulder with its four-way flashers on. I thought it was a problem, at first, until I saw the guy sitting in the window, elbows on the roof of the car, camera in hand. Naturally, I pulled over, too.

I honestly didn't know what I was looking at. Surely, I thought, that cannot be a fox. It was huge. It was the size of a wolf. But it was red. Bear? said my brain that still couldn't believe it was a fox. No, said my eyes, looking at its slender features, long nose and black points, that is a fox. I took a couple of truly terrible photos of it and then headed back into the car and up to the gallery.

People refused to believe me when I said it was a fox, but huge. "No, it was a wolf," said one in a tone that suggested I knew nothing because I was from a big city. I looked her straight in the eye and said, "It was alone. Wolves are not solitary. And it was red. Wolves are also not red." Not sure whether they should believe me, I decided to leave it alone until I spoke with the studio owner.

"Oh you saw him, did you? Isn't he gorgeous?" "So I'm not crazy and it is an enormous fox?" "Of course - he's often around here, did you see him on the road?" "Yup, just watching the cars go by from the edge of the woods. But he's so big. He's at least twice the size of a normal fox." "Yes, he's pretty amazing."

Vindicated ! I know what a damn fox looks like. Wolf, my ass.

It's been nearly a month since my last post and so much has happened, I'm not sure where to start. I will gloss over some things, I guess, because without photos (which are on Gareth's camera) I can't remember all the details. Gareth has returned to Wales, which is terribly sad for me, but was inevitable. We knew the two months would pass and we'd be separated again, but nonetheless, it's hard to be without him now. We had such a grand summer together. Now, I'm realising I'm flat broke and in somewhat dire financial straits with every penny allocated to something for the next month. Including, I suspect, the car of a friend of mine, who is moving to New Zealand this fall. It's awkward, being poor, but it won't last. And the reason I am poor now is because when I was home, I took advantage of having half decent stores around me and bought clothing and new prescription sunglasses (polarized !) for at least a third cheaper than they would have been up here. So, the money went to good things, but still, I could really use an extra hundred bucks right about now.

At any rate, we embarked on our Journey South and East on the last day of July. In the fifteen minutes before we were being picked up for the bus terminal, my cats got loose outside. Now, my boy-os are not outside cats, although they have both done some time in the wilderness. With keen ears, I heard the excited mewing of Choco and we went around the front to see if we could find them. Gareth returned to get the jars of cat food for shaking and we called them by their names. It didn't take long to discover them in the neighbour's yard, which is very much like a forest full of undergrowth and narrow spaces between trees and saplings. I went around the front and into the yard to try shooing the cats back onto our grounds, while Gareth kept calling and shaking the food.

Twee, who has the heart of a wumpus, didn't take long to decide that food was a wonderful idea. He cut through the fence and bounded down to my apartment door ready for snack time. Unfortunately, Choco, younger and more timid, was not quite so ready to spring off and found himself suddenly alone in the 'wilderness' without his bosom buddy, Twee. He started to cry out, panicking, and I began to fear he might dart out onto the road in his confusion. I kept calling his name and crouching down with my hand extended, trying to get him to come to me instead of looking for Twee. Finally, he did and I caught hold of him and grabbed him to me. Choco's not one for being held, but in this case, shaking with fear and still mewing like a kitten, he held still while I struggled out of the neighbour's yard, around the front (by the road), down into our yard and around back to my apartment door.

Talk about unnecessary stress !

The bus ride was surprisingly fun. 85 hours long, with only one decent stop (four or five hours in Edmonton, the rest were an hour or less), and yet, fun. The scenery was incredible, the rest stops often amusing; movies were shown and the sorts of games we played in elementary school (like squares and hang-man) were a good way to pass the time. The interesting thing about that kind of a bus trip is that when you have no fear of missing your connection because you're on the same vehicle for ages, you relax totally. We could sleep when we wanted, and managed to get quite decent sleep each night with a good afternoon nap every day.

In Edmonton, we had time to kill, so I called up Brian and made him come collect us for dinner and adventures. That was good fun ! We found a tasty Yemeni(?) restaurant near the bus terminal and then played in a big park before going for coffee on Edmonton's hip strip. This was a great way to break up the first leg of the journey. In Saskatoon, which is a pretty little city in Saskatchewan, we discovered that the bathrooms at the bus terminal had showers we could rent. They weren't great, but for three bucks a piece, we had a private room to bathe, get changed, and refresh ourselves.

Saskatchewan and western Manitoba were the highlights of the trip for me, with some of the most beautiful rolling scenery I've ever laid eyes on. Seriously, nevermind the flatness - it's not boring the way people make it out to be. There were fields of many colours, dramatic river valleys, fascinating industrial farm architecture and damn, we watched a massive storm system roll in - the same system that brought tornadoes to Ontario, I think. We literally watched it on the horizon for hours before it finally rolled over us in central Manitoba.

Ontario was just damned big. It was exciting to cross the border, but the excitement quickly faded when it took six hours just to reach Thunder Bay. Then the bus follows the north shore of Lake Superior, which is as beautiful as people say it is, though quite difficult to photograph from a moving bus, and that goes on forever. Here's a nice shot from my deviantArt gallery. Lake Superior is enormous. It took fourteen hours or so to get from Thunder Bay to Sault Sainte Marie, which is about when I started to get excited. At Sault Ste. Marie, the architecture began to look like the old Ontario structures I've grown up with and there were hardwood trees once again. I almost started to cry I was so happy to be 'home'.

Of course, Toronto was yet another eight or nine hours away and we had to stop in Sudbury first. At Sudbury, I started to develop a migraine headache from the rise in humidity. While not as bad as when I had the migraine on the plane, having one on the bus kind of sucks. It was forgotten for a time upon arrival in Toronto. We'd slept soundly (hooray for painkillers !) and I woke up about ten minutes from the Bay Street terminal. Tall buildings surrounded me and I was really home ! It was about six in the morning when we piled off the bus and into a cab for my friend Alana's.

We had a bath at her place, because she doesn't have a shower, and then settled down for a few hours of napping (and I tried to sleep away the migraine). As it turned out, everyone I knew who gets migraines had also had one - only theirs were from the humidity clearing ! That's how dry the Yukon is in comparison. At Alana's, our friend from Realms of Despair, Trevor, who came in from Massachusetts close to Rhode Island, arrived while we were napping. Despite the pain, I enjoyed going out for breakfast with everyone and it felt good to be walking around in stinky Toronto. I had no idea just how stinky, but it really doesn't smell good unless you're passing flowers.

And from there, we prepared for the RoD Reunion, but that's for another entry. I will hopefully come back and add photographs, or at least links to where you might find them.

I'm going to break my rule for talking about Israel. Why? Because I'm deeply troubled. I'll be brief; I don't want to get worked up. Jews have trouble separating Israel's government from 'being Jewish' and I refuse to do that. This means I'm usually at odds with the majority of Jews. I do believe in Israel, but I believe that somewhere along the way, people forgot what it was all about. I'm not stepping up here to give a logical, well thought-out treastice on War and Peace in the Middle East. This is a mostly emotional post to vent my frustrations. I'm also not saying I'm right, okay? I'm just opining.

Lebanon. God help Lebanon. Beirut, once the Paris of the Middle East. I want to visit Lebanon. I want there to be a Lebanon for me to visit. Lebanon was, for three decades, immersed in agonising civil war. After a painful reconsiliation, the country managed to do what the US is unable to forcibly accomplish in either Afghanistan or Iraq. Lebanon had peace, extended calm and all the potential to regain what it had lost through a surprisingly functional factional coalition government. Of which Hezbollah was a part - not a large part, but elected by people, nonetheless.

Hezbollah is not Lebanon, just as Republicans are not the USA (though some might debate that). Hezbollah's aggression against Israel was out of the blue, so far as I understand, though I am certain it has accomplished its goal of destabilising the current delicate balance. Hezbollah has, it seems, plunged the greater part of Lebanon into conflict. Maybe it's not a surprise, considering the group's beliefs and mandate, but then why did this take the entire world by surprise?

For the record, I believe Israel has every right to respond to Hezbollah's attacks. It's called defense. What is not alright is for Israel to blithely rain havoc upon so many innocents. What Canadian Prime Minister, Steven Harper, called "a measured response" was not. Retaliating in the form of killing hundreds of civilians for the death of a few soldiers is not alright, nor is it measured. Fuck you, Steven Harper, and your ridiculous non-stance. And fuck you Hezbollah and Israel for once again not looking at the larger picture.

Israel has not looked at the larger picture since Yitzhak Rabin's assassination in 1995. How could Israel have responded? Considering the nation's reputation with intelligence and related technology, surely it could have managed an internal strike that could have crippled an arm of Hezbollah. I'm not saying it would have worked, or that the budding war could have been avoided, but they didn't even try.

I was recently asked if I thought there was a solution to Israel's problems. What did I say? It goes against everything I believe in, but I also think it's about the only option left. Isreal needs to let Palestine go. Just give up the land and fuck the settlers. The settlers shouldn't be there anyway. Let it go. No discussion about right of return or any of that bollocks. You want out? There, you're out. Now leave us alone. That's what I think Israel should do. Israel did not create the climate of intollerance, that was the fault of neighbouring Islamic countries who set Palestine up as the sacrificial lamb. Maybe, after ten years of utter separation as sovereign nations, maybe then discussions can begin again. I dunno.

Anyway, I'm done venting. I have no solutions, only emotions. The situation is far beyond what emotions can accomplish. There. That was my annual discussion of my disgust and sadness. I think I can now get on with my day.

Well, she's gone. Tracy's plane has take off for Vancouver and I'm left with a much quieter house. In typical Tracy fashion, I was right and she was wrong - her plane was yesterday, but we arrived at the airport for it today. Air Canada was super awesome, though, believe it or not, and moved her flight bookings over without even charging her an administrative fee. We were both shocked. Then she very nearly left her driver's licence at the check-in counter. I tried to change the American money that Gareth and I had left over from Skagway, but incredibly, despite being an international airport, Whitehorse Airport does not have a currency exchange. I shall have to take it to the bank and pay the fee.

As I said, we went to Skagway on Saturday. Skagway is in the Alaskan panhandle and was the staging ground for the Klondike Gold Rush back in 1898. Well, actually, it was the town of Dyea, from where you picked up the Chilkoot Trail. When the railway was built a year later, they based it in Skagway and that effectively killed Dyea. Skagway, today, is a tourist vacation staging ground. The cruiselines come in from Seatle and Vancouver, bringing thousands of tourists in during the summer. I'm not sure what goes on in town during the winter. The town isn't very big, probably not much bigger than 5000 people, and that's probably a generous estimate, and it has jewellery stores like Toronto has doughnut shops. But, tucked in and around them are some neat little places - like the Rock Shop, or whatever it's called, which sells rock samples and fossils. I bought a tiny trilobite (hah, I guess I'm starting a collection) for five bucks of the Order Ptychopariida, from Utah. At least I think that's it's Order. I'll have to double check. I almost bought a single Agnostida, which is the sort of 'proto' trilobite, but I liked the larger specimen I purchased more. Larger is relative, of course, as it's only about 8/10 of an inch in length. Where I'll mount it is another question, too.

Skagway's not all that interesting, really. Without the tourism, there'd be nothing much there at all. What is has is an extraordinary climate. Situated on what I guess is a glacial fjord, at sea level, surrounded by the very tall Coastal mountains and with the Pacific moderating the weather, it boasts a very temperate climate. The geology is such that you can move from alpine tundra to norther boreal forest, to temperate rain forest in a matter of minutes. We enjoyed dinner at the Red Onion Saloon, which is the less funky answer to Dawson's Bombay Peggy's. It was really nice to eat a fine pizza, though. Seriously. We also hit the liquor store and bought some REAL beer, since Whitehorse doesn't sell any. The Alaskan Brewery makes a charming Oatmeal Stout and I wanted to take it home with me. So I did. There was also fantastic milkshakes, coffee and peanut butter pie at a local cafe called Haven (or was it Heaven) Cafe off the main drag of downtown. Look for it, if you're there. YUM.

Dyea was very interesting, I must say. On a neighbouring fjord arm, it was humid and beautiful. Nearly fully returned to nature, there is little to mark the town's existence. A single false front stands on what had been main street, a straight line of coniferous trees marking the road in an otherwise random forest. Here and there are litter remains: rusted metal; roof sheets and wagon wheel frames. The forest has spent the last eighty years reclaiming the site. The town existed not even for a decade, going from boomtown to a population of three in the span of seven years. The train, bypassing the Chilkoot, made Dyea utterly pointless. We also visited the neighbouring Slide Cemetary, which with the exception of a tiny local burial adjoining the main yard, contains almost exclusively the graves of those who died in the April 3, 1898 snowslide. The obvious exception to this is "Noscitur shot in the mountains" a month later. Noscitur, in this sense, I think means "known to those who know him" or some such, as in its base verb form, "nosco", it means "to become acquainted with, get to know".

And then, yesterday, in carrying out the theme of dead mining settlements, we all went and hiked Miles Canyon until we found the remnants of Canyon City. Marked mainly by its midden heaps and vague structural outlines, Canyon City was a lot like Dyea. The walk along the canyon is stunning, even if it makes my fear of heights act up a bit, and took us about two hours in total. Originally, we'd planned to visit Kluane National Park, where Canada's tallest mountain, Mt. Logan, is located, but the weather was inclemant and we didn't want to drive an hour and a half to find it no better at the park. Hiking in the rain kind of sucks. No one was disappointed, though. Miles Canyon is beautiful and there were very nearly no other people on the trails. Despite the slow and lazy start, we had a great day.

Tracy arrived on the Air Canada Jazz flight from Vancouver last night. I picked her up and gave her a brief tour of the area (since it's still light out at midnight). I have rented a bright red Subaru Impreza for the week and I love it. I've had to reaquaint myself with driving stick, but despite some mildly embarrassing stalls, all has gone well. I'd almost forgotten how much I love driving stick. I cannot understand why anyone would ever want to drive automatic. You have so much control with a stick shift, you feel so much more a part of the driving experience. Of course, I love driving and cars, so maybe therein lies the difference. I love this little car, but I know that even were it on sale at the end of the season, the chance that I'd be able to afford it is still very unlikely. When I return from my visit home in August, I'm going to set up a test drive for a Kia Rio5.

To celebrate having a car, Gareth and I drove out to Marsh Lake. The lake is high now, or 'in' as Gareth said, because the mountain snowpack has been melting. There are dams, too, which may affect the height of the water, I'm not sure. There was only one family at the beach, though, frolicking in the effing cold water. I waded out to my knees, but turned around at that point because it really is the coldest lake I've ever walked in. We also drove in and around Whitehorse, to a lookout over the Yukon River, and up and down roads. Charming way to spend a couple of hours.

Choco and Twee were very excited to have Tracy spending the night on the futon. When we opened it out into a bed, they helped make it (in that special hindering sort of way) and then Choco helped UNmake it by jumping in and out of the covers. I think they slept with her last night, too, which is very sweet and gave Gaz and I a break from their rambunctiousness. Until breakfast time, anyway. There's a brand new hole in my toe thanks to the little beast.

Have you ever been lost in a forest? Lost so that you know where you're going, but just can't seem to find the way to get there? Lost so that you know there's an end but not sure how to find it?

It sounds like I'm talking euphemistically, doesn't it? I'm not.

Twice this week, I've gotten lost in the forest between my apartment in Porter Creek and the Arts Centre in Takhini. It's hemmed in by the Alaska Highway on one side and Mountainview Road on the other, but there is a vast, incredibly wild acreage of boreal forest in between. In which I have now gotten lost twice. The first time involved a gully and my fall into it. This time involved my boyfriend and his irritation at my incredible lack of direction sense. It didn't help that I consistantly viewed it as a merry adventure and he kept thinking he was being made late for his volunteer work at the Film Festival. And fair enough, but he didn't even want to be going in the first place. At any rate, we did eventually make our way out of the woods and to the Arts Centre, quite a bit later than we'd anticipated.

Anyway, we've both been volunteering for the Yukon International Film Festival (or YIFF -ewwww), which has been both pleasant and painful. Firstly, it was the worst organised event I have ever participated in. From symphony galas, to museum fundraisers, to science fiction conventions, this was absolutely the worst run festival ever. And they held it in June. Who the hell runs a film festival at the end of June? Right when school is out and everyone leaves town. Did they think they were going to pack the seats with German tourists?! Crikey. Anyway, I did enjoy some of the films I saw.

In particular, my three favourites, in order, have been: The End of Silence, One of Many and, These Girls. The first was a foreign film set in Toronto about a Russian dancer and the man she falls in love with and the struggle she faces in a new place, filled with passion, and the pull of home, family and the ballet. God, it was lovely, and just brimming with the most beautiful imagery of Toronto as a romantic and mysterious city. The second was a documentary about a woman from Winnipeg (now Whitehorse) and her search for her roots as the child of one of the Lost Generation of Native people. The children of those who's lives were uprooted for residential school and their confusion about who they are and where they belong. The third was just light comedy about three teenaged girls who woo and use a married man in his thirties. It has a strange premise and it should have failed, but it was honest, funny and terribly weird. In a good way.

Anyway, I'm off to the closing party of the festival now. So I'll write more another time. My leg seems to no longer be cramping up and that's good, but better yet, the shuttle will be arriving soon to take me downtown.

This past weekend, in that it was Gareth's first weekend with me here in Whitehorse, I splurged and rented a car. The Subaru dealership here, which also sells Kias, has a rental car programme, which is both helpful and a good way to sample their fleet. The dealership has a very good reputation and I can totally understand why. Family owned and operated, they are polite, pleasant, and warm. They're also happy to provide information about vehicle purchasing. We had big plans to do many things, but didn't end up doing them. You can find the run-down here.

Firstly, I must comment on how widely varied the terrain and geology is in the area around Whitehorse. It's incredible, really. There are six or seven distinct biomes and many animals that inhabit them. In a matter of minutes in the car, we could see sheer cliffs, lake-filled valleys, boreal forest, sand-hills, etc. Truly remarkable. We have been told to keep an eye out for mountain goats and whatnot on the cliffs and mountains as we're out driving. How neat is that?!

Anyway, on Sunday, we headed up Fish Lake Road, which is only a kilometre or two from my apartment. Several people had told me that it was a stunning drive and we should try it. So, in that our initial plans to head for Skagway, Alaska, were no longer happening, it seemed like a very good place to head. Descriptions of its beauty were understating the truth. Quite possibly, I have never seen so dramatic and glorious a landscape since arriving in the Yukon. The road slowly climbs up, one rolling hill after another, and eventually you become aware that you're climbing in altitude. As you do, the trees begin growing further apart, more sparse in foliage, and shorter in height. The mountain peaks surrounding the drive become no longer tower as you head up. The trees weren't even nearly as close to leafed-out as they are down in the city.

Eventually, we came to Sky High Wilderness Ranch, which is a horse ranch in the summer and a dog-mushing locale in the winter. It is just off from the scenic Fish Lake. We first stopped at the lake's marshy shore where, quite literally, the bushes and grasses start to break apart and blend into the shallows, and we were shocked to discover the lake was more than half frozen. Gareth wondered if it would be possible to drive out to a point near to the ice. There was a tonne of waterfowl and shorebirds flitting here and there - and me without any binoculars. When we'd snapped some pictures, we carried onto the ranch where we pulled in to pick up a brochure. We chatted with some staff and guests and were pleased to discover that the rates are not 'sky high' as the ranch's name might suggest. The place was certainly rugged, but the horses looked healthy from what I could tell.

Brochure in hand, we turned around and continued along Fish Lake Road toward the lake. Sure enough, the road did reach the lake, and indeed carry onto the base of the mountain across from it (though we did not follow to it, as I am about to explain). Standing at the sharp bend in the road where it suddenly skirts the lake's edge was a man and a motorcycle, smoking a cigarette. He was sporting a plaid shirt and wide suspenders and seemed to be enjoying the view. "I betcha he's German," I said. We pulled up at the boat launch near to him. As we climbed out of the car, he greeted us and asked Gareth to please do up the button of his pants as he'd had a motorcycle accident and couldn't really move his left arm.

Now, I admit to exchanging a surprised and mildly suspicious glance with Gareth, but I got over it much faster. I know what went through his head: 'he's some kind of perve and wants me to touch his penis...' Back in Toronto or even South Wales, that would likely be the case. I've met a few perves in my time. Paralysed, Gareth looked somewhat horrified, so I stepped up. This, afterall, is the Yukon. Sure enough, that's what the fellow wanted. His shoulder was slumped slightly and apparently, all he could move were his fingers and his arm was numb. I suggested that he should go to hospital and even that I'd take him, but he was concerned about his bike (out in the middle of nowhere) and stated firmly that as soon as his arm felt better, he'd ride home (to Carcross, which isn't exactly a five minute drive) and get his Jeep first. Unable to disuade him, I accepted his choice and went back to Gareth.

I stooped on the boat launch and drank from the lake, which on reflection might not have been the smartest move considering the common occurance of beaver fever out here, but nonetheless, it was freezing and delicious water. Gareth took off his shoes and socks and padded out on the gravel bottom and froze his feet in the water. Faintly, all around us, we could hear the ice creaking, groaning and cracking and little chunks of slushy ice drifted past us. I saw a muskrat and I think we saw greebs floating and diving under the ice.

All the while, the man, who was indeed German, was trying unsucessfully to start his bike. Finally, as we were preparing to carry on, he called out to me and asked if I could get someone from the ranch to help him with a pick-up onto which his bike could be loaded. This was something I'd actually suggested earlier, when he was more obstinate, considering it would be nearly impossible to steer a motorcycle one-handed anyway. I agreed (and was going to do it even without him asking), so Gareth and I piled back into the car and drove back to the ranch where we asked them for help. The ranchers immediately jumped to action in their pickup and we were satisfied that we'd done the right thing. As it was approaching our appointed D&D date, we decided not to carry on to the base of the mountain, but turn around and head back into the city.

On the road, we stopped to take photos. The pickup passed us and we waved. Then, back in our car, we carried on again, only to pass the pickup, which was now stopped at the side of the road. At first I was concerned and then I realised they'd stopped to help out another pickup, much older and beaten up, which had obviously died. There was the guy from the ranch leaned over the old truck's open hood with its driver, and there was the German biker sitting in the ranch's pickup. We waved again and carried on, only to be passed once more as we were again stopped and snapping photographs. We were looking down into a steep, deep gorge and saw what we think was an old car wreck, twisted and rusting amongst the trees.

The Yukon is a strange place where it is second nature to help those in need. Survival in this harsh and remote land would be impossible without the aid of others. Even so close to Whitehorse, the land is wild and dangerous. It was a good and powerful demonstration of what living here is about. Beauty, vastness, remoteness, climate, danger, and co-operation. It was certainly a varied day for us, and quite unlike what we expected.

Despite all my best efforts, the last two days before the new Gallery show and opening are going to be full of insanity and stress. No matter how many times people are asked to provide details for their work - their work, which is being exhibited in an important regional gallery space - they fail to do so. It's very frustrating. Had everything gone as planned, I would have finished my Exhibition Notes on the weekend, all the content for the panels would be at the printers and ready for pick-up tomorrow, the labels would be printed and I would be in the process of mounting them. Instead, I'm transcribing label material from hodge-podge sheets of paper, many of which lack important bits of information such as the title of the piece. Instead, I'm still organising the exhibition information binder. Instead, my Exhibition Notes are sitting half completed on my computer desktop waiting for key bits of information to dribble in via email. Yet, it all must come together for Thursday. Can we do it? God, I hope so.

In other news, I think it's safe to say I now have a small but ecclectic circle of friends up here. There's Owen, the Mad Scribe (Owen Williams, he would want me to say, who is one of two calligraphers living in the Yukon and probably one of Canada's only 'letter artists'); Andrew, my reporter friend as the Curator would call him and, possibly Owen's friend, Dawn (to whom I am known as 'Fuscia'), can be lumped in this strange social heap. There's also Dungeon Master Andrew from D&D and Matt from the YAC. At something more of an arm's length there is Nicole, an artist originally from Peterborough and, Tammy, box office party girl. No great surprise, I'm making friends faster with the boys than with the girls, and for once (at least in most cases), it's not because I've got boobies. Or at least not entirely. Also, there are a few others from Dawson that I can probably count, too, but in that they're in Dawson, they're not really immediately accessible.

At any rate, the other night, Owen, Reporter Andrew, myself and Jessica the ex artist-in-residence at KIAC in Dawson, all went for an ice cream and an impromptu hike through Miles Canyon following a small art show opening at Zola's. Zola's would be the big frou-frou cafe on Main Street, home of the Midnight Sun coffee company. Zola's a big supporter of the Arts. Yay ! Anyway. We got soft-serve ice cream from Riverside Grocery, which is open 20 hours a day (it used to be 23 hours a day), which has possibly the yummiest soft-serve around. The consistency is all wrong, so it comes out with this awesome texture and malty goodness. Yum. We were eating it in Rotary Park (is this a new semi-urban Canadian icon to go with Chinese Restaurants and Cenotaphs?), but since it was a bit chilly down by the river and the mosquitoes were biting, we decided to finish up and pile into Andrew's VW to check out Miles Canyon.

Miles Canyon is, well, it's a canyon through which the Yukon River flows. We originally went to take photos and then head home, but it was so enticing that we trotted across the swaying wooden bridge (held fast by anchored cables) and head out on a delightful hike. We probably hiked for an hour and a half, not quite making it to Canyon City, the site of a... well, some kind of settlement, or something. But, in that it was pushing 10 o'clock and we were still on the trail, you can understand why. The views were spectacular, I must say, with volcanic rock cut down by the river into sheer walls of red and grey stone. The river, itself, is a sort of eerie greenish blue, or bluish green, I guess, kind of thick-looking, and totally beautiful. Tall evergreens and less tall poplars and such grow up away from the sides and on the slopes, hunks of weathered basalt (real basalt - not in a lab !) sitting along the paths. Down the slopes are many alpine plants, low and clinging with tiny flowers. The furry crocuses (crocii?) have gone to seed, which suggests they're not actually crocuses at all, and Owen made me eat some. Holy burning mouth - talk about a northern source of chili-pepper replacement. And then, to make up for it, he picked these tiny pink flowers smaller than my chewed pinky finger nail and fed those to me. Much like clover, but softer in flavour, kind of honey-like. Very nice. I took many photos and we discussed everything from Philosophy and Art, to music and travel. It was grand. I will certainly return to Miles Canyon.

What a night. I suppose it's night time despite the broad daylight, albeit setting sun. I just came in from a short exploratory walk that took me through the marshy area behind my apartment. It lies beyond the creek which runs parallel to the dirt lane. The birds are singing their tails off and the breeze that was cooling down the otherwise very warm day up in the hills around the Arts Centre seems to have blown itself off somewhere else. The leaves, as I predicted to my mother last weekend, are opening at a pace. I took some photos. On Sunday, they were quivering, fuzzy buds, ready to spring into life at any moment. I told my mother that within two days they'd start to open, and they did. I give it no more than two days before everything is in full leaf. I cannot believe how quickly everything is exploding out of dormancy.

This includes the people, by the way. Everyone's up on their bicycles, or walking, or riding their noisy dirt bikes and ATVs. I don't much love the latter two, as they're kind of noisy, but the people around here don't do it too often, so far, so I can bear it. Courtesy. It's all about respecting your neighbours.

In other news, Gareth has booked his ticket to Whitehorse ! I'm thrilled to pieces about it, of course. He's arriving on the German charter flight (twice a week, full of German tourists, direct from Frankfurt) on the 8th of June, around lunchtime. This is the same day as the Gallery Opening, so he'll get to crash while I help finish things up at the Centre and then I'll come back, get changed and pick him up for the festivities. This is going to be awesome and also kind of wacky. He's staying for a while, so it will be kind of like... co-habitating, as they said in the fifties. My apartment, my cats, and my boyfriend, all under one ceiling. Weird. And also neat ! I'll get to play 'house' !

I know, I’ve been neglectful again, but my excuse is very good. I have settled into my apartment and am now the proud co-habitator of two cats ! Yes. I had intended only on getting one cat (Choco – previously spelled Chacko), but I knew there might be a problem in separating him from Twilight (now called Twee). When Choco came into the shelter, he was about four months old and had no experience with humans. He quickly bonded to Twilight, who is a massive, hairy guy of three years old, as though he were a littermate or even sometimes like a surrogate mother. Twilight was just fine with this as he likes kittens and young cats a lot. When I got Choco home, he was extremely distraught, yowling and hiding and whining and whimpering. He kept calling for Twilight in the special trill he uses and of course no cat answered. Then he cowered in his litter box for seven hours straight. The next morning, I knew I had to go back for the other one. When I let Twee out of the carrier, he proceeded to sneak about the apartment making pathetic little growly meows. Each one was answered by Choco who was hiding in my bedroom. When Twee entered my room, Choco leapt out of his hiding spot, trilling with his tail quivering, and full-body rubbed the other. Now, almost a week later, wherever I go in the apartment, there is a small, furry, black parade that follows me. Twee follows me and Choco follows Twee. It’s adorable. And the good news is, Choco, who didn’t handle human attention well at all, now lets me pet him and he curls up on the bed at night. Yay !

So, let’s return to my trip for a bit, since there are so many other things I can talk about. For instance, Cardiff, the capital city of Wales, has remarkably few things open on a Sunday. This presented a challenge since Gareth and I were hanging out with his sister, Carolyn. After sharing a drink with Gareth’s brother as well, who then left for more atrociously bad hockey, the three of us sort of wandered around by the bay. We did enjoy an outdoor photo exhibition put on by Oxfam about the before and after of the 2004 tsunami. The photos were brilliantly presented on all four sides of rectangular pillars through which we could walk and wander while surrounded by the hodgepodge of Victorian and modern architecture. After that, though, what were we to do? Decisions, decisions ! (Let me tell you, Gareth’s family is incredibly bad at making decisions.)

In the end, we decided to do what everyone else seemed to do on a Sunday afternoon in Cardiff. We went bowling. Yes, that’s right. The king of American leisure sports is a central attraction at the city’s main mall complex. There was also an arcade and typical American-style restaurants. This amused me to no end. Anyway, bowling is always fun, and it was this time, too. Carolyn whooped our asses – I think she’s secretly in a league – and much laughter ensued. We also discovered in this mall a small exhibit of new Dr. Who memorabilia. The new series is predominantly filmed in Cardiff, you see, so this was kind of a tribute thing. Anyway, it was my treat, I took them in to see it and we ended up being happily surprised by what we found. Particularly the button that said ‘Do not push’, which Carolyn pushed, and caused the dailek to come to life, scaring the crap out of her. Following all that, we struggled with a dinner decision, wandering around looking at restaurant menus posted in windows before finally settling on an American-style (heh) Tex-Mex place, not unlike Tortilla Flats in downtown Toronto. The waitress was lots of fun and the food was good and I discovered that Bloody Caesars are totally unknown in Wales. Incidentally, I have since discovered that apparently, the Bloody Caesar was invented in 1969 at the Calgary Westin Hotel. Neat.

I guess all this American pop-culture was acceptible having spent the previous day at St. Fagans, a stunningly beautiful 'living history' museum of country buildings dating back four hundred years or more right up until the Second World War. We got there early enough in the day that there weren't many people about (except at the bakery where we purchased a breakfast of scones with jam and the Welsh traditional bread, Bara Brith). We stroled around the entire site, in and out of wonderfully old buildings, many with thatched roofs and tamped earth floors. There was a paddock with an unusually shaped cow (imagine if a horse and a cow interbred) and, of course, sheep. The trees were fringed with pale green leaves and encircled by lush, dark ivy. The daffodils were in full bloom (the Welsh national flower), and the weather was excellent. On the site, there is also a recreation of an ancient Celtic dwelling, which was fun to explore, and a gorgeous estate house with exquisitely beautiful gardens. Sitting on the grass, watching the creek laugh its way over rocks was a serene moment that we particularly enjoyed together.